I turned 57 in May. Wow, never thought I’d ever be this old. Although I don’t feel old, the years don’t lie. Looking back on my life I think about what I did, the things I could have done and the things I should have done. I began to wonder where I came from, my lineage. I often wondered where my family came from. I knew, or at least thought I knew where the family lived and what they did and where they came from. What I didn’t know about my family, was how little I really did know. The old memories were faulty. The family stories were just as inaccurate.
So, what about me? I remember asking my step grandfather, Paul Becker, where I came from. He told me I came to Baltimore on a German freighter. It was the same way all good German boys came here. That was much better story than some old stork making a delivery. Grand Pop Becker was the only real Grandfather I had. He was a good guy. Truck driver, taxi cab driver and all around swell guy.
A few weeks ago I was thinking about that story. I really started to wonder about the family. Not just my direct family but all of the branches. I didn’t have a clue where to begin. I did the old Goggle thing and searched for what to do or how to get started. One of the first web sites I pulled up was Ancestry.com. I figured, what the heck and signed up for a month. So, I whipped out the credit card and signed up.
That was three weeks ago. Now, I’m addicted. My wife knows it, the kids know it and the family is probably tired of knowing it.
I created a family tree. Added my parents, my wife, my kids, the grandson my wife’s family and then anyone I could remember. Once that was all enter I looked at the tree. It had a lot of empty branches. This is where the addiction comes in.
I used to do those 1000 piece jig saw puzzles. Once I started I was in a rush to get it finished. I’d work on it every chance I had. Putting together the family genealogy was a puzzle just like that. I knew what had to be connected but I didn’t have any names, birth, wedding or death records or where they lived. I knew my father’s father lived in East Baltimore and had been married a few times. I actually met him for the first time in the early 70’s. But, I didn’t know much else. I definitely didn’t know anything about his parents or their parents. This is just an example of what I didn’t know.
I started with my mom’s family. I knew her dad died in the 1930’s. Mom didn’t't remember much since she was such a young girl when he died. I stopped by the family grave site. (Thank you to the care taker at Holy Cross cemetery in Brooklyn Park.) My mom’s brother, Frankie, died of polio in the early 30’s. Her dad, Stanley, was buried in the same grave. The confusion began there. He was Steve Squarinovitch on the tombstone. He was Stanley Skernevich, from Russia, on mom’s birth certificate. Mom told me when I was little that he was from Lithuania. Now what, I had Russian blood? Other questions began to surface. Where in the heck did he get the name Steve? When did he die? Where did he come from? How old was he when he died? What did he do for a living? I didn’t have many answers and my mom is 83 and does not remember much about him. The marker said he died in 1928.
Ancestry.com had the tools for the search. I just didn’t know where to start. Searching for Stanley Squarinovitch didn’t help much.I did find Steve. It was his WWI draft registration card and military record. He served during the great war, was injured and discharged in 1919. Seems someone at the draft board figured Steve was a good replacement for Stanley.
Name: Steve Squarinovitch
Race: white
Address: 616 W. Lombard St., Baltimore
Birth Place: Lithuania, Russia
Birth Date: 15 Sep 1888
Comment: Ind 9/30/17 pvt; corp 7/20/18, Co B 313 Inf; Co A 304 Engrs 1/16/18; Casual Det 15 Engrs 4/23/18; 30 Admin Lab Co Army Serv C 6/12/18; Patient at Hosp AEF 5/6/19; Patient at Base Hosp Camp Merritt N.J.; Patient at 30 Gen Hosp; Demob Gp Camp Meade Md. 7/10/19, Hon disch 7/15/19, Overseas 4/30/18 to 6/6/19.
Pretty good info. Using that bit of info I was able to find the 1930 Census records. A lot of good information here too. He (Steve was listed at Stanley Squirinovitch) worked at the shipyard as a boilermaker. Mom finally remember her mom saying they called him Steve at the shipyard. He was 39 (really 42). Spoke Lithuanian in the home. They owned their home on Wasina Avenue and had paid $1,800 for it. Probably a good price back then. Grandmom Annie (Anna Polyanski), Elizabeth (5 yrs) (that’s mom) and Frankie (2yrs 9 months) were listed. Annie and Stanley were married about 7 years. Mom remembered they were married at St. Alphonsus Church in Baltimore about 1924. Nearly everyone on their block was an immigrant. Bohemians, Romanian, Czechs, Austrians, Poles and other Lithuanians lived on the block. That was pretty typical for Brooklyn in the early to mid 1900’s.
Getting this stuff hooked me. Things I didn’t know were at my finger tips. I just had to learn how to use it all. Wow! I’m still looking for this immigration data. I will stop by St. Alphosus to get a copy of the wedding certificate hoping that Stanley’s mother and father’s namesare on the certificate. I also have an original wedding photo and wonder whether those are Stanley’s parents standing behind the groom.
I couldn’t stop. Mom’s grandfather was Stanley Polyanski. I didn’t know much else except where he had lived. I knew him, he would only speak Lithuanian to me, that is Lithuanian without the false teeth in. So, I put a email into the family whom I hadn’t talked to in years. My cousin’s wife, Lorraine, had posted looking for info on a relative. I spotted it and sent her a note. It seems Stanley was married to Ona (Anna) W Vencekevicinte. I did not know that. I also found Stanley’s brothers and sisters as well as his and her parents and all their kids. Looks like most of them arrived in the 1890’s from Vilnius, Lithuania, lived in Curtis Bay, Maryland.I found some of the records of immigration ships into Baltimore. Names were a little different, like Palianski, but I was able to match them up from data in the records. Aunt Veronka had $1.00 in her pocket when she arrived. More Wow!
From there I was able to link to a small portion of a family tree started by my cousin Ruth and her husband Bill.
Next up, the Steigerwald’s.